There are few things I'm traditional about.
Mostly what I've watched my family do is modify traditions through time. Things simply change, and the harder a person fights to keep things exactly the same (tradition), the worse it is.
I think I learned from my mom that it makes more sense to adapt than to fight and then be angry that things haven't stayed the same. She was an adapter; she watched too many people in her family be unhappy trying to keep things the way they had always been.
I was never big on dressing my kids up cute for holidays. They mostly didn't cooperate, and I'm not a dresser-upper for holidays so eventually I moved on. I guess my tradition when it comes to dressing my family for holidays is seeing how much like hobos everyone looks.
But there is a tradition that my side of the family has done since our kids and my brother/SIL's kids were young:
THE LINE-UP
At first, it was easier to lie them all down than to try to stand them up and keep them in order.
but her one year-younger cousin eventually took the title of tallest grandkid (which he currently still holds)
And then the next cousin took her spot in the height of grandkids line-up.
AND, unfortunately, now her younger brother has taken her spot:
To make her feel better, we did a LINE-UP by age, and she was queen again:
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